Comments on Constance the 14,000th: We Know You Are Gay, and it's OK.

I think asking him might not be a bad idea. And i...

2008-09-23T12:53:00.000-07:00

I think asking him might not be a bad idea. And if he denies it, tell him you'd love him the same if he was. And then wait until he's ready.

My dad came out about 5 years ago. And then went right back in. He and my mom are going on 40 years together. It breaks my heart to see him with someone who doesn't make him happy, but he's an adult and I can't force him to live life the way I want him to.

I am sure over time if you show him that you love ...

2008-09-22T18:00:00.000-07:00

I am sure over time if you show him that you love and accept him no matter what he will come out to you. You could always just ask him. I know you said he would deny it but then again he might surprise you.

SO

Maybe brother's just trying to find his place in t...

2008-09-22T14:32:00.000-07:00

Maybe brother's just trying to find his place in the world still? Or maybe he's a closet case who doesn't think that anyone would love him if he came out.

I knew a guy in college who I would have bet my house note was flaming - and then he started dating a girl & they were in LUV. Really. It was the strangest thing to see .... I still swear he had to be gay & maybe she just flipped him ....